Instead of talking about them...

Instead of talking about others we should be talking to God about others. Prayer may be the only chance they have at change. Along with that though, not that we are perfect, but when you go to God in prayer about someone else make sure you are receptive to what he will tell you. More than often than not, He will ask you to love them, speak nicely to them and help them, because in all reality that's what He's doing with us daily. Grace, not just mercy. Mercy saves them, grace helps them along the way. I pray that you and I become more mature in Him, for Him, with others.